Everybody seems confused. 

It's almost as if we are all just guessing. Nobody is 100% sure.

Young people dread marriage. 

They want to keep postponing it. Until they can postpone it no longer.

Good men and women who have vowed. To make their relationship work. Often end up giving up.

What is really the problem?

Most Importantly...

Perhaps you've experienced something similar. The love was great and heavenly.

Then it became ordinary. 

Then you started tolerating each another.

Then you began to feel pressured to bend. To compromise. To change who you are.

Then you started to feel negative emotions. 

Sometimes guilt. 

Sometimes shame. 

Sometimes anger. 

Sometimes resentment.

If you've experienced anything similar (even if slightly)...

... then you may have been infected. And may need the antidote.

You deserve a kind of relationship...

Where you grow old together. With strong love. And deep appreciation. For one another.

A kind where trust, respect and loyalty is solid.

...where security, friendship, and a real commitment is guaranteed.

A type where the affection and romance gets stronger. As you grow older.

A type where you don't have to give up your identity or your dreams.

You owe it to yourself and your future. To make a life time of happiness your reality.

And it has nothing to do with money, looks or education.

It has everything to do with your ability. To understand and use the antidote.

The epidemic is mental. So is the antidote.

That's why you may need to first realize.

That...

It's common sense.

The more you know about something, the better you become.

You became good at your job (and every other thing you are good at) because you worked on your knowledge. You worked on your skill.

Even your natural talents. Got some training. Before you became excellent.

Take the Messi's and C Ronaldo's of this world. 

Look at your favorite musicians and actors.

They were already talented. 

But  still had to go through training. To refine their talent.

 Marriage is no different. 

Even if your ability to love. Comes naturally. You still need to polish them. To make them shine.

But look around. 

Ask yourself: why is there no relationship schools or classes for single people? 

Why are there no mentorship for people actively dating?

The closest we have is a marriage class. Usually few months to wedding.

People are left to figure it out.

All on their own.

Yet we wonder. Why there is so much confusion and frustration.

We have almost no one with complete clarity. No one to guide.

So people rely on nothing else. But trials and error.

And if you've noticed, relationships has little tolerance for error.

A big mistake is fatal. The small ones are even worse. 

They mostly go unnoticed. And seem so innocent. Until they accumulate. And then they explode.

That's when things break down irreversibly or the couples start looking for therapy.

By then, it's late already.

But it doesn't have to be that way.

If only these couples knew. If only someone has told them.

That it could have all been prevented. 

If only they had a full understanding. Of the real communication dynamics. Of a natural, healthy relationship.

Then their story will be different.

But most people don't know this. Most don't even realize. That it is a problem.

In fact, they don't realize.

That...

But psychologists do.

They are beginning to realize. That most relationships don’t collapse. Because of one big fight.

They die. Because of small things. That build up quietly.

They call it "micro patterns" and mostly operate below the conscious level.

That's why they wreck havoc. Without any hindrance.

But once you become aware, they begin to lose their power.

Micro patterns are those small tiny nuances. In your behavior. That affects other people. On an unconscious level.

Have you ever found yourself? Being drawn to someone? Have you found yourself? Being repelled from someone? Without knowing why?

When it comes to relationships, there are usually 2 major types:

1. Gender nuances and...

2. Communication signature 

Here are some examples. That breaks it down:

Let's start with the gender nuances...

When women complain to their partners. About work challenges. What do most men do?

They try to advise her. They try to help. They try to fix the issue for her.

Why? Because they love her and want the best for her. 

But every woman instinctively knows. That it is a bad idea. 

But most men don't. 

And then they wonder. Why their woman continues to do the very thing. He has advised her against.

And so even though he has the best of intentions, he only ends up achieving the opposite effect.

This is how resentments slowly builds up.

Until two people who were once inseparable. Begins to just tolerate one another.

Take another example...

Every man instinctively knows. That it is a bad idea. To give unsolicited advice. To another man. 

He must ask before you give. He must come to you first.

Else he will take it personal. He sees it as an insult. 

His instincts interprets it as you telling him. That he is incompetent.

But most women don't have the slightest clue.

That's why they get confused. When they try advising their man. And get a negative reaction.

She expected appreciation for "being there for him". 

Instead, he paid her back with a negative vibe.

Now she's hurt. He's hurt. They are both hurting. Yet, they don't even know. What the real problem is.

If only she had known. That there was a better way.

And mind you...

There are 100s of similar situations. Like this in most relationships. 

Each of them trigger their own set of reactions  and have hidden consequences. 

But couples are mostly unaware. Of what's going on.

Some psychologists like to call these micro patterns "relationship landmines".

These patterns are even more dangerous. Than a real landmine. Because...

 unlike the real ones. That explode loudly. With visible, immediate effects.

Relationship landmines. Explode quietly. With their effects showing up much later.

So you don't get to learn from them. 

You don't get to make corrections. Until it's too late.

If couples can learn. To spot these nuances. 80% of relationship problems. Will disappear overnight.

To deal with the remaining 20%, you will need to learn to...

What is a communication signature?

Let's break it down. With a real life example.

Look at your contact list.

There are some people in that list... 

That if you see their message anywhere, you instinctively know it's them — even if you don't see there names. Or their profile picture.

What they are saying might be the same. With what everyone else is saying.

But you just know. That the message is from them.

How are you able to do that?

It's because you've unconsciously memorized. Their communication signature.

A communication Signature is the deep unconscious information. That you pass across. Every time you talk.

It carries bits of your personality — and it's constantly evolving.

Your signature tells someone close to you. More than what your words are saying.

It tells them when you're happy.

It tells them when you're sad.

It tells them how you really feel about something or when your mood is changing.

But it also sometimes tells them...

For example, It can tell them you blame them. Whereas all you're feeling is compassion.

They might be sensing that you are upset. When all you're feeling is a strong desire. To protect them.

That's why it's important. To learn how to synchronize your signatures.

Synchronization problems is the reason. You sometimes want to speak to your partner. About what's bothering you — about what's hurting you.

But instead of feeling understood and heard, you feel like you are hitting a brick wall.

But this isn't supposed to be happening.

Couples don't deserve to go through these.

You deserve better. 

That's why I've documented a guide. That helps couples uproot and repair. Every micro pattern. Threatening their relationship.

And by the way...

My name is Anthony LoveBuddy.

I've always been someone who tend to look at the world differently.

Maybe that's why people often come to me for advice.

Many years ago, I noticed this disturbing epidemic. And I became restless. 

I dreaded it happening to me. 

So I went into intense research. I devoured every written piece I could, consumed every related video,  and observed lots of couples keenly.

Years later, patterns emerged. Then I started noticing. That my advice work.

I will advise a man or a woman. On what to do. They will do it.

Then issues that have seem unsolvable for months. Just tend to disappear almost overnight.

That was when it dawned on me. That i've been given a gift. That I must share with the world.

So I packaged it in a book. And came to Facebook to create awareness.

I've titled it:

This is not one of those books. That give you  theories. And leave you to figure out the details yourself.

This one breaks everything down and make it so simple and practical. That anybody can understand and apply it.

It shows you the A-Z. Of starting, nurturing, and protecting a relationship. That leads to a marriage. Where the sweetness, love, and happiness. Lasts a life time.

Each chapter contains real examples, ready-to-use scripts and step-by-step exercises. That you can try tonight.